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The AI Architect's avatar

The distinction you draw between "professional NIMBYs" and regular folks who just vaguley prefer what they know is important. I've noticed in local planning meetings that there's always a core group of maybe 5-10 people who show up to oppose everything, while hundres of people who might casually support the same positions would never actually attend. The Lawler piece on government-created suburbia is fascinating, especially the Hoover angle, most people think of suburbia as pure market outcomes when the zoning/loan/highway architecture was extremely deliberate. One thing that stuck with me is how lifestyle creep discussion connects back to car dependency, when everything's far apart and you need to drive, the friction of consumption drops so much that overspending becomes almost automatic. Do you think the state preemption debate will eventually settle based on empirical results from early-adopter states, or will it stay ideologically split regardless of outcomes?

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Thanks for the shout-out, Addison. I had fun rereading my essay — it’s still a personal favorite, and I stand by it even more a year later, now having moved to Spain permanently.

Your gut reaction that international travel must equal indulgence fits perfectly into that same distinctly American lens. I think some people hear “Emily is living in Europe” and picture me lying on a lounge chair on a Greek island, sipping my third aperol spritz by 1pm. Sure, I’ve splurged on a weekend trip here and there, but I moved here because my regular, day-to-day quality of life is higher. There are quite literally nine places within a 5-minute walk of my apartment where I can buy milk — why would I ever want to battle for a parking spot at Costco?

To be clear, this was never meant to be a “holier than thou” essay. I was perfectly content with my classic American lifestyle until I decided to travel for a few months (which turned into years), forcing me to limit my belongings to a suitcase and cut ties with my car and most of my material possessions. And now, from outside the fishbowl, observing what many Americans perceive as “baseline survival” and how overconsumption has been normalized is jarring.

There’s also a xenophobia/classism/fear-of-change angle wrapped up in a lot of the typical NIMBY argument, which living outside of your home country and culture also tends to help cure — but I’ll leave that loaded topic for another day. Great read!

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